ABOUT UNDERSTANDING THINGS

I read it in a newspaper, but it was always at the back of my mind, may be since the day I was born.
Some author wrote it, there was view and counterview, but the truth always remains the truth.
Yes, it is true, we can’t tell that life is incomplete without a man or a woman, it can be heaven and hell as well with a man or woman, and everybody has a CHOICE. A right to choice to make or destroy his or her life. Women being the second sex, have their own saga of pain and tears, of subjugation and subordination. But women have a choice, to be happy, be it in any way or anywhere. If it is in a relationship, it’s a choice, if its out of it, it’s also a matter of choice. Nobody has a right to pass a judgment on what women do and what not. If one can be happy in any way without hurting anybody, or the human values, she should have the freedom to do so.
On the other hand, if we talk about relationships, the idea of a perfect partner with all the compatible virtues and traits has emerged from the pop culture which human race as adopted as a way of life, more so, the modern generation. But any successful couple or the marriage counselors will strongly vow that all good marriages require a lot of hard work and compromise. Studies have shown that, the chemical reaction that triggers initial romantic feelings or attraction that lovers feel fades away over a period of time and a very strong commitment and many compromises are needed to keep a bond going. A stable relationship requires strong, mature and patient partners rather than people who evoke strong initial attraction.
The newspaper is to be complimented on its illumining analysis of the scenario.